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Married Lifestyle Today

Feel Close Again.Feel Confident Again.Feel Like You Again.

Private, supportive consulting for women and couples who want deeper connection, stronger communication, and confidence about the road ahead.

A couple resting their foreheads together under a tree

Married Lifestyle Today

Feel Close Again.Feel Confident Again.Feel Like You Again.

Private, supportive consulting for women and couples who want deeper connection, stronger communication, and confidence about the road ahead.

A couple resting their foreheads together under a tree

Married Lifestyle Today

Feel Close Again.Feel Confident Again.Feel Like You Again.

Private, supportive consulting for women and couples who want deeper connection, stronger communication, and confidence about the road ahead.

  • Marriage & Relationship Consulting

  • Certified Pre-Marital Consulting

  • Rebuilding Trust & Closeness

  • Communication · Trust · Confidence

  • Complimentary Call

Private & supportive

Judgment-free

Practical tools

Women & couples

Oklahoma City

Pre-marital preparation

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Our Approach

A Safe Place to Begin Again

Vanessa brings education and real-world experience to every conversation. Here is what you can count on.

Our Approach

A Safe Place to Begin Again

Vanessa brings education and real-world experience to every conversation. Here is what you can count on.

Our Approach

A Safe Place to Begin Again

Vanessa brings education and real-world experience to every conversation. Here is what you can count on.

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Compassion

Compassionate, judgment-free support, so you can speak honestly about where you are and what you want.

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Experience

Guidance rooted in education and real-world experience: the professional tools, and the real-life commitment it takes.

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Practical Tools

Practical tools you can apply immediately, at home, in the conversations that matter most.

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Partnership

A partner committed to helping you move forward with strength and clarity, at a pace that works for you.

How Vanessa helps

Consulting Shaped Around Where You Are

How Vanessa helps

Consulting Shaped Around Where You Are

How Vanessa helps

Consulting Shaped Around Where You Are

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Marriage & Relationship Consulting

Rebuild trust, restore closeness, and move forward together with confidence.

A married couple smiling together outdoors

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Marriage & Relationship Consulting

Rebuild trust, restore closeness, and move forward together with confidence.

A married couple smiling together outdoors

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Marriage & Relationship Consulting

Rebuild trust, restore closeness, and move forward together with confidence.

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Certified Pre-Marital Consulting

Start your marriage aligned, prepared, and deeply connected from day one.

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Certified Pre-Marital Consulting

Start your marriage aligned, prepared, and deeply connected from day one.

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Certified Pre-Marital Consulting

Start your marriage aligned, prepared, and deeply connected from day one.

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Women's Empowerment Consulting

Gain the clarity, confidence, and direction to fully step into the woman you're meant to be.

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Women's Empowerment Consulting

Gain the clarity, confidence, and direction to fully step into the woman you're meant to be.

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Women's Empowerment Consulting

Gain the clarity, confidence, and direction to fully step into the woman you're meant to be.

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Complimentary Call

Not sure which is right for you? Start with a free, private conversation.

A woman at home on a phone call

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Complimentary Call

Not sure which is right for you? Start with a free, private conversation.

A woman at home on a phone call

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Complimentary Call

Not sure which is right for you? Start with a free, private conversation.

What we work on

What couples and women bring to Vanessa

Five themes come up again and again. Sessions focus on whichever matter most to you right now.

What we work on

What couples and women bring to Vanessa

Five themes come up again and again. Sessions focus on whichever matter most to you right now.

What we work on

What couples and women bring to Vanessa

Five themes come up again and again. Sessions focus on whichever matter most to you right now.

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Communication That Doesn't Escalate

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Communication That Doesn't Escalate

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Communication That Doesn't Escalate

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Rebuilding Trust & Closeness

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Rebuilding Trust & Closeness

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Rebuilding Trust & Closeness

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Preparing for Marriage

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Preparing for Marriage

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Preparing for Marriage

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Confidence & Self-Trust

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Confidence & Self-Trust

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Confidence & Self-Trust

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Boundaries & Life Transitions

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Boundaries & Life Transitions

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Boundaries & Life Transitions

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Your consultant

The heart behind the work

A doctoral candidate and relationship consultant who believes strong marriages and confident women can change families for generations.

Your consultant

The heart behind the work

A doctoral candidate and relationship consultant who believes strong marriages and confident women can change families for generations.

Your consultant

The heart behind the work

A doctoral candidate and relationship consultant who believes strong marriages and confident women can change families for generations.

Vanessa Todd

Founder & CEO

Marriage

Pre-Marital

Women

Vanessa Todd

Founder & CEO

Marriage

Pre-Marital

Women

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Support packages

Choose Your Level of Support

Not sure which is right for you? Book a complimentary call and choose together.

Support packages

Choose Your Level of Support

Not sure which is right for you? Book a complimentary call and choose together.

Support packages

Choose Your Level of Support

Not sure which is right for you? Book a complimentary call and choose together.

Monthly

Annual

Save 20%

Focused Support

$

6

sessions

Perfect for addressing immediate concerns, gaining clarity, and creating momentum with guided next steps.

6 guided sessions

Guided conversations

A clear path forward

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

Deeper understanding together

Book My Complimentary Call

Growth & Alignment

Most popular

$

8

sessions

Build stronger communication, deeper understanding, and practical strategies that create lasting change.

8 guided sessions

Guided conversations

A clear path forward

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

Deeper understanding together

Book My Complimentary Call

Deep Transformation

$

12

sessions

Comprehensive support to rebuild connection, strengthen confidence, and move forward with a renewed vision for your future.

12 guided sessions

Guided conversations

Comprehensive support

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

A renewed vision for the future

Book My Complimentary Call

Monthly

Annual

Save 20%

Focused Support

$

6

sessions

Perfect for addressing immediate concerns, gaining clarity, and creating momentum with guided next steps.

6 guided sessions

Guided conversations

A clear path forward

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

Deeper understanding together

Book My Complimentary Call

Growth & Alignment

Most popular

$

8

sessions

Build stronger communication, deeper understanding, and practical strategies that create lasting change.

8 guided sessions

Guided conversations

A clear path forward

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

Deeper understanding together

Book My Complimentary Call

Deep Transformation

$

12

sessions

Comprehensive support to rebuild connection, strengthen confidence, and move forward with a renewed vision for your future.

12 guided sessions

Guided conversations

Comprehensive support

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

A renewed vision for the future

Book My Complimentary Call

Monthly

Annual

Save 20%

Focused Support

$

6

sessions

Perfect for addressing immediate concerns, gaining clarity, and creating momentum with guided next steps.

6 guided sessions

Guided conversations

A clear path forward

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

Deeper understanding together

Book My Complimentary Call

Growth & Alignment

Most popular

$

8

sessions

Build stronger communication, deeper understanding, and practical strategies that create lasting change.

8 guided sessions

Guided conversations

A clear path forward

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

Deeper understanding together

Book My Complimentary Call

Deep Transformation

$

12

sessions

Comprehensive support to rebuild connection, strengthen confidence, and move forward with a renewed vision for your future.

12 guided sessions

Guided conversations

Comprehensive support

Private, supportive sessions

Practical tools to use at home

Strategies for lasting change

A renewed vision for the future

Book My Complimentary Call

Common questions

Questions You May Have

Can't find your answer? Reach out anytime. We would love to hear from you.

Common questions

Questions You May Have

Can't find your answer? Reach out anytime. We would love to hear from you.

Common questions

Questions You May Have

Can't find your answer? Reach out anytime. We would love to hear from you.

Who is Married Lifestyle Today for?

How do I get started?

Where are you located?

Is this counseling or therapy?

What does pre-marital consulting include?

Who is Married Lifestyle Today for?

How do I get started?

Where are you located?

Is this counseling or therapy?

What does pre-marital consulting include?

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Change Is Possible

You don't have todo it alone

You don't have todo it alone

Start with a complimentary call: a private, honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.

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